The Fallen Grace of a Boyhood - Welcoming The World of Manhood

What makes you a man?? what is it differentiate you a boy from a man?? simple question with simple answer.. responsibilities in my context (nikah). Taking the ownership of responsibilities and live your life with it. Bernikah is a big responsibilities and it's scary!! rite!!?? Nikah is like a testament of you being ready for the responsibilities to be hold. Am I rite?? during and before the Nikah session..men must be like stutter/shivering/nk terciritbirits/demam2. I think its normal to have those feelings. All the rush of blood, all the adrenalin rush, all the toilet sessions menyeramkan~~ some men felt that marriage is like a desolation of their freedom, a grotesque experience of a dying freedom and being single. but it's actually the exaltation of life that need to be felt and celebrate.

I've experience the 1st glimpse of  Manhood last friday.(again in my context : Nikah). It was a nervewrecking experience and a refreshing perspective of life as a man. Bernikah is like a receivership all mother of responsibilities passing from the father to a husband in the most sacred and religious way. It takes a courage to perceive such responsibilities. I salute to those men who've experience such.

I really hope I'm more than ready for the world of manhood when my time comes..hopefully it's not too soon..*wink*

welcome to manhood and married life ikan@norazri azis & Nurhidayah Rusli..have a blissful married life..~ Amin~

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It seems like everything running as per normal nowadays..slow and 'dampy' like they used to..nothing much to look forward to currently. I guess its that time of the year where everything slows down and rotating accordingly. Life is as per usual : normal, content, confined, laying low. 

I've managed to go through the Ramadhan month successfully - Alhamdulillah..on the solat side maybe terkantoi a bit *banyak terbarai jugak la actually*..managed to overcome my temptations, as like previous years - I've successfully completed my 3rd Rukun Islam - 100% ya'll - I'm pleased with myself..Raya celebration was OKey..nothing much to celebrate since my granddad past away last year (rest in peace atok..we miss you).Raya celebration this year in moderate mode.

Nothing much to be celebrate and to be joyous about this year of Raya, except seeing your relatives, aunts, uncles and nieces. Yearly there will be a repetitive session with all my relatives - over and over - enthusiastic questions  reigning on me regarding "My Wedding Date/plans" - "Where's Ur Hani?" - "Bile nak bawak jumpe kitorang?" - gossiping about my future undertaking on marriage/career paths and so on ... bla bla bla..I got stuck with all the questions and the answers people; will always be the same  and repetitively - "Insyaallah, ade rezeki - ade la" - but thats what families do rite? catching up..bahan-bahan..gather up as a family and etc, besides on gaduh-gaduh rebut harta, cut each others throat..rite? well the rest of my Raya celebration is the same..

anyway wishing you guys..

Happy Eid Mubarak 1431Hijrah to all Friends, Families and Colleagues - Have a blessed and blissful Hari Raya to all of you.


Me Sincerely